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Friday, June 17, 2005

Feel a Draft?

"We're going to have to face that question," Senator Joe Biden told Tim Russert last Sunday when asked about the likelihood of a draft. "It is going to be a subject, if, in fact, there's a 40 percent shortfall in recruitment. It's just a reality." Unfortunately, Biden and others are probably right.

The Army has missed its recruiting targets since February and last month unexpectedly lowered its benchmark from 8,050 to 6,700 recruits and still only reached 75 percent of that downsized goal. The National Guard and Reserve have suffered a similar 25 percent shortfall. These recruiting declines are largely why the Army has only 35,000 of the 80,000 troops needed to rotate into Iraq and elsewhere next year.

The lagging numbers, a product of inflexible military policies and an increasingly unpopular war in Iraq, have forced a full-blown recruiting crisis. Last month the Army added 1,200 recruiters, boosted its advertising budget, upped enlistment bonuses from $6,000 to $20,000 per recruit and even offered $50,000 in low-rate home mortgages. They've also slashed the enlistment period from two years to 15 months and raised the eligible age for National Guard and Reserves from 35 to 39. In an attempt to plug the hole, the Army is recruiting more high-school dropouts with lower test scores. Applicants who score in the 10th to 30th percentile range on the military's standardized aptitude test are now being accepted at higher rates. Making matters worse, junior Army leaders are quitting after their enlistment.

The effects have been alarming. For the first time in twenty years, the Army suspended recruiting on May 20 to hold a full day of ethics training for its recruiters. The ethical breaches include "the recruitment of a mentally ill young man in Ohio and a recruiter in Houston who threatened to arrest an applicant if he failed to join," the New York Times reported. The abuses, said top Army recruiter Michael Rochelle, "were just flying under my radar." Reported recruiting improprieties are up 60 percent since 1999, with recruiters themselves suffering from stress-related illnesses, damaged marriages and suicidal thoughts.

Next year could be the toughest for recruiting since the all-volunteer Army began in 1973, Maj. Gen. Rochelle predicts. "It's comparable to having no savings account," added RAND Corp specialist Beth Asch. "They'll be living month to month." The hiring of poorly educated, unqualified troops will likely force a critical drop in the capabilities, training and readiness of the modern military, experts predict.

"America faces a choice," Paul Glastris and former Army captain Phil Carter wrote in the Washington Monthly in March. "It can be the world's superpower, or it can maintain the all-volunteer military, but it probably can't do both."

It's time to have this debate across the country, and especially in Washington.

Ari Berman

I do think some of this is being exaggerrated in the above article. But I also know if we are recruiting less then quailifed people we are going to have a BIG Problem on our hands in about one year.
I think it is something that enlistment bonuses are up to $20,000. Do I hear any volunteers? And, that you only have to enlist for 15 months! Wow what deal but I am sure you will not get $20,000 unless you enlist for 6 years! I know the game...

Monday, June 13, 2005

WhiFinCog Bio # 5

NAME: Anna
SEX: Female


Home: Charlotte, N.C.


FAVORITE TV SHOW: Sex in the City (still)
FAVORITE MAGAZINE: Vogue, Harper's, Real Simple


FAVORITE SMELL: New car


FAVORITE SOUNDTRACK: Donnie Darko

FAVORITE FOODS: Italian, Polish, Japanese, Indian
FAVORITE ALCOHOLIC DRINK: Manhattan, dirty Martini, gin and tonic
FAVORITE SPORT TO WATCH: Don't watch sports, but boxing is okay.


FIRST THOUGHT WHEN I WOKE UP THIS MORNING: Where is my husband?!

WHAT'S ON MY MOUSEPAD? Don't have one.


WORST FEELING: Saying goodbye.


BEST FEELING: Making up.


THINGS TO DO ON WEEKENDS: Dogs, dogs, dogs....

DO YOU GET MOTION SICKNESS? Yes, in cars/trains/planes when no fresh
air is
available.

ROLLER COASTERS-DEADLY OR EXCITING? Exciting! But only if you had
lunch
more than 1 hour before.


PEN OR PENCIL? Pen


HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE? 2


DO YOU GET ALONG WITH YOUR PARENTS? Yes- for a few hours at a time.

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CONVICTED OF A CRIME? No.

CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? Chocolate all the way, man!

CRUTONS OR BACON BITS? Bacon! Bacon! I WANT BACON!

DO YOU LIKE DRIVE? Only a Lexus, Beemer or Benz. So, no I don't like
to
drive.


DO YOU SLEEP WITH STUFFED ANIMALS? No, but I DO sleep with small, furry
puppies.


IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY PET, WHAT WOULD IT BE? My Bull Terrier, Henry.


THUNDERSTORMS,COOL OR SCARY? Cool-unless you're in the pool.
IF YOU COULD MEET ANYONE DEAD OR ALIVE, WHO WOULD IT BE? It's shallow,
but
Jude Law. I would give him the chance to finally realize how much he's
loved me all these years.


WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN? The Leo, the lion.


EAT THE STEM OF BROCCOLI? Yea, it's the best for you.


IF A GIRL ASKED FOR THE SHIRT OFF YOUR BACK, WOULD YOU GIVE IT TO HER?
Only
if I didn't like the shirt much.


DREAM JOB? I'm basically doing it.


HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE? Of course! That's why I got married.


WHAT IS ON YOUR WALLS IN YOUR ROOMS? victorian painitings, WWII posters
from
Poland, prints from the places I've been in Europe (and NYC!).


IS YOUR GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? Half Full, and I'm still
pourin'!


ARE YOU A RIGHTY OR A LEFTY? Lefty (physically and politically).

DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS? No way, I suck.
That's why
my assistant does the typing here!


IF YOU COULD BE ONE GARDENING TOOL, WHAT WOULD IT BE? I don't know. I
want
to say fertilizer b/c it makes things grow, but then I'm saying I'd
like to
be poo. That's my best guess, though.


WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CAR? 1984 Toyota Tercel hatchback, in yellow. And
I was
fly as hell in it!
WHAT'S YOUR DREAM CAR? 2005 Lexus LS400. Black, black/chrome 20s.


XTRA!
AGE:27
TIMES MOVED: 15


FAVORITE YEARS: 1977 (born), 1984 (came to U.S.), 1988 (little brother
was
born), 2001 (married my man), 2004 (graduated from law school, passed
the
Bar, and opened my office).


FAVORITE VIDEO GAMES: Tetris.


TV SHOWS I LIKED: Real World, Top Model, any "true crime"/court tv
show,
all the trashy talk shows (no Jerry Springer).

SOUNDTRACK CURRENTLY TO MY LIFE: "Caroline" by Concrete Blonde and "La
Tortura" by Shakira..

Thursday, June 09, 2005

WhiFinCog Bio #4

NAME: Lacey

SEX: Female


Home: Locust, NC


FAVORITE TV SHOW: The OC

FAVORITE MAGAZINE: Jane


FAVORITE SMELL: white tea and ginger (bath and body works)


FAVORITE SOUNDTRACK: Party Monster, Garden State

FAVORITE FOODS: Pizza, buffalo chicken (preferably boneless),
cheesecake


FAVORITE ALCOHOLIC DRINK: Miller Light/Yeager

FAVORITE SPORT TO WATCH: figure skating, celebrity ballroom dancing
(go
joey!)


FIRST THOUGHT WHEN I WOKE UP THIS MORNING: shit work...is it raining??

WHAT'S ON MY MOUSEPAD? me and my lovely sister

WORST FEELING: cops knocking at the door and they ask for you

BEST FEELING: leaving circuit city


THINGS TO DO ON WEEKENDS: Work, go camping in mud pits, Go to
Concerts, the
beach,

DO YOU GET MOTION SICKNESS? no


ROLLER COASTERS-DEADLY OR EXCITING? Exciting! but mainly cause i am
thinking
about being stuck on the hill going up...

PEN OR PENCIL? Pen


HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE? depends on where it is
hiding
and who is calling.


DO YOU GET ALONG WITH YOUR PARENTS? Yes- and thankfully they are
willing to
let their poor criminal daughter stay with them.

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CONVICTED OF A CRIME? yes and recently


CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? chocolate

CRUTONS OR BACON BITS? Bacon! !

DO YOU LIKE DRIVE? not at all, but i do enjoy riding in cars.


DO YOU SLEEP WITH STUFFED ANIMALS? yes a pink gay pride care bear

IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY PET, WHAT WOULD IT BE? white tiger

THUNDERSTORMS,COOL OR SCARY? cool, twister!


IF YOU COULD MEET ANYONE DEAD OR ALIVE, WHO WOULD IT BE?
elvis

WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN? libra the scales


EAT THE STEM OF BROCCOLI? hell yeah, makes me feel like a giant eating
little trees


IF A GIRL ASKED FOR THE SHIRT OFF YOUR BACK, WOULD YOU GIVE IT TO HER?
is
she topless? do i have another shirt? well...probably not unless i
was on
a stripper rescue mission

DREAM JOB? former child star


HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE? yes


WHAT IS ON YOUR WALLS IN YOUR ROOMS? mirrors, my friends, nkotb, and a
collage i made over 10 years ago, the zodiac constellations

IS YOUR GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? half empty

ARE YOU A RIGHTY OR A LEFTY? righty tighty

DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS? nope

IF YOU COULD BE ONE GARDENING TOOL, WHAT WOULD IT BE? hoe


WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CAR? ashley's former red escort

WHAT'S YOUR DREAM CAR? a limo with a driver


XTRA!
AGE:25
TIMES MOVED: this question confuses me...from anywhere? each
way...ummm 10
i guess


FAVORITE YEARS: any that vh1 loves


FAVORITE VIDEO GAMES: super mario brothers 1,2,and3 pac man and this
misses

TV SHOWS I LIKED: passions, the state, strangers with candy, hi honey
i'm
home, little house on the prairie

SOUNDTRACK CURRENTLY TO MY LIFE: holla back girl, gwen stefani

WhiFinCog Bio # 3

NAME: Kate

SEX: Female


Home: Concord, NC


FAVORITE TV SHOW: Lost

FAVORITE MAGAZINE: Rolling Stone


FAVORITE SMELL: the hot rubber from the race track


FAVORITE SOUNDTRACK: Dirty Dancing, because ohhh its sooo dirty

FAVORITE FOODS: rice, peas and turkey clubs


FAVORITE ALCOHOLIC DRINK: Labatt Blue, Yuengling, and Bud Light

FAVORITE SPORT TO WATCH: PBR (Prof. Bull Riding), NFL, and NASCAR


FIRST THOUGHT WHEN I WOKE UP THIS MORNING: How long did I sleep sitting up?

WHAT'S ON MY MOUSEPAD? A mean dog named Bristol eating my Sharkie


WORST FEELING: That people are being mean, just because they are jealous


BEST FEELING: the National Anthem with a fly over


THINGS TO DO ON WEEKENDS: go to the beach, concerts and wherever else I am invited!

DO YOU GET MOTION SICKNESS? Nope- stomach of steel


ROLLER COASTERS-DEADLY OR EXCITING? EXCITING! Can't get enough. I have to go back to Vegas for the one at the NASCAR Cafe for the 3rd time!


PEN OR PENCIL? Pen


HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE? 1, unless its someone looking for me.


DO YOU GET ALONG WITH YOUR PARENTS? Yes- love them dearly, and glad they are my roomies.

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CONVICTED OF A CRIME? No and hopefully never will. If the glove doesnt fit, must acquit!


CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? Chocolate with a splash of peanut butter


CRUTONS OR BACON BITS? Crutons, bacon freaks me out sometimes

DO YOU LIKE DRIVE? Yes, I am a modern day moonshine mover


DO YOU SLEEP WITH STUFFED ANIMALS? yes, Sparky is my best friend


IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY PET, WHAT WOULD IT BE? a bighorn sheep. I would have to build a mountain for him though.


THUNDERSTORMS,COOL OR SCARY? cool, but it still startles me


IF YOU COULD MEET ANYONE DEAD OR ALIVE, WHO WOULD IT BE?
Howard Hughes, I wish I could be that meticulous and driven


WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN? Sagitarius, the best ever!


EAT THE STEM OF BROCCOLI? yeah, if it isnt chewy


IF A GIRL ASKED FOR THE SHIRT OFF YOUR BACK, WOULD YOU GIVE IT TO HER? Yeah, because I know someone else would do it for me

DREAM JOB? singer/songwriter that is on tour-- paid to perform and party!


HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE? Yes, unfortunately with a gangster


WHAT IS ON YOUR WALLS IN YOUR ROOMS? a beautiful mountain and lake picture, "Yes I am a Pirate" Jimmy Buffett sign and pics of my sisters and I


IS YOUR GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? well, its under the tap and foaming with head right now


ARE YOU A RIGHTY OR A LEFTY? Righty and I know I do it right


DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS? Yes, it was drilled in my mind as well


IF YOU COULD BE ONE GARDENING TOOL, WHAT WOULD IT BE? rotatiller, so I can tear things up


WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CAR? '85 Buick Regal with T-tops

WHAT'S YOUR DREAM CAR? Dodge charger


XTRA!
AGE:27

TIMES MOVED: 5


FAVORITE YEARS: 1980, 1995, 2000


FAVORITE VIDEO GAMES: Out Run


TV SHOWS I LIKED: Dukes of Hazard, Cosby Show, Silver Spoons

SOUNDTRACK CURRENTLY TO MY LIFE: Beastie Boys, License to ill

WhiFinCog Bio # 2

NAME: Paula

SEX: Female


Home: Melbourne FL


FAVORITE TV SHOW: Will & Grace

FAVORITE MAGAZINE: Shape


FAVORITE SMELL: Freesia and anything Strawberries


FAVORITE SOUNDTRACK: Grease

FAVORITE FOODS: Mexican food


FAVORITE ALCOHOLIC DRINK: Margarita on the Rocks w/salt, Mich Ultra Beer

FAVORITE SPORT TO WATCH: Football


FIRST THOUGHT WHEN I WOKE UP THIS MORNING: Is it raining again.....

WHAT'S ON MY MOUSEPAD? New England Patriots


WORST FEELING: When the phone rings at 2 in the morning, who's hurt/killed/in trouble...


BEST FEELING: All the bills paid and still have money in my pocket


THINGS TO DO ON WEEKENDS: Workout, beach, shop, drink


DO YOU GET MOTION SICKNESS? No


ROLLER COASTERS-DEADLY OR EXCITING? scarey


PEN OR PENCIL? Pen


HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE? I look to see who it is first

DO YOU GET ALONG WITH YOUR PARENTS? Somewhat


HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CONVICTED OF A CRIME? yes

CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? Vanilla


CRUTONS OR BACON BITS? Croutons

DO YOU LIKE DRIVE? Not in florida


DO YOU SLEEP WITH STUFFED ANIMALS? angel pillow

IF YOU COU! LD HAVE ANY PET, WHAT WOULD IT BE? miniature dog

THUNDERSTORMS,COOL OR SCARY? Scary


IF YOU COULD MEET ANYONE DEAD OR ALIVE, WHO WOULD IT BE? I have no idea at this time

WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN? Taurus


EAT THE STEM OF BROCCOLI? No broccoli for me


IF A GIRL ASKED FOR THE SHIRT OFF YOUR BACK, WOULD YOU GIVE IT TO HER? Probably not

DREAM JOB? Nutrionist or Personal Trainer

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE? Yes

WHAT IS ON YOUR WALLS IN YOUR ROOMS? Not much, a couple of paintings

IS YOUR GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? half empty

ARE YOU A RIGHTY OR A LEFTY? right

DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS? Yes

IF YOU COULD BE ONE GARDENING TOOL, WHAT WOULD IT BE? that's a hard one, I don't know what there are

WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CAR? 1984 Subaru Hatchback

WHAT'S YOUR DREAM CAR? BMW X5 SUV


XTRA!
AGE: none of your business


TIMES MOVED: way too many times, over 12


FAVORITE YEARS: 1988, 1989, 2000, 2003


FAVORITE VIDEO GAMES: Nintendo Mario Brothers

TV SHOWS I LIKED: Reality shows


SOUNDTRACK CURRENTLY TO MY LIFE: none. I'm boring.

Wednesday, June 08, 2005

The WhiFinCog Bio

NAME: Abby

SEX: Female


Home: Tampa FL


FAVORITE TV SHOW: The Cosby Show

FAVORITE MAGAZINE: True Story


FAVORITE SMELL: Vanilla from The Body Shop


FAVORITE SOUNDTRACK: Dirty Dancing & American Dreams

FAVORITE FOODS: Pizza, Tacos, & Chinese- #1 Marion's Sauce & Meatballs


FAVORITE ALCOHOLIC DRINK: Shiraz Wine, Cosmo Martini, Miller Light

FAVORITE SPORT TO WATCH: NASCAR/NFL


FIRST THOUGHT WHEN I WOKE UP THIS MORNING: Does My Foot Still Hurt? From my injury this weekend at Hard Rock Casino falling in oil spill in parking garage.

WHAT'S ON MY MOUSEPAD? My Puppy Bristol eating Sharky


WORST FEELING: Sounds of Mortars or Rockets launching/hitting


BEST FEELING: Welcome to JFK- New York City- The United States- The Local Time is ****.


THINGS TO DO ON WEEKENDS: Go to Concerts, the beach, and Casino

DO YOU GET MOTION SICKNESS? Yes I have but not in long while


ROLLER COASTERS-DEADLY OR EXCITING? Exciting! I want to ride the new coaster at Bush Gardens in Tampa and will do it before summer is over.


PEN OR PENCIL? Pen


HOW MANY RINGS BEFORE YOU ANSWER THE PHONE? 2


DO YOU GET ALONG WITH YOUR PARENTS? Yes- we get along and enjoy spending time together. Why is that? Not really sure myself. Maybe due to the fact they had be at such a young age we have plenty in common.

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CONVICTED OF A CRIME? umm nope not convicted


CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA? Vanilla since it goes well with everything else.


CRUTONS OR BACON BITS? Bacon! Bacon! I WANT BACON!

DO YOU LIKE DRIVE? Well, I don't really like it. It is not something I look forward to so I guess my anwser is NO- I would rather fly!


DO YOU SLEEP WITH STUFFED ANIMALS? ummm ok a stuffed heart pillow my husband got for me on Valentines Day but nothing more


IF YOU COULD HAVE ANY PET, WHAT WOULD IT BE? LabraDoodle-which I am on the waiting list for and hopefully will have by end of year so Bristol can have a sister!


THUNDERSTORMS,COOL OR SCARY? Cool-normally but sometimes scary that's a tough one


IF YOU COULD MEET ANYONE DEAD OR ALIVE, WHO WOULD IT BE?
Jesus Christ. Not due to the fact that I am some religous freak either! There are many questions I would like to ask him so I know the truth!


WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN? Taurus THE BULL


EAT THE STEM OF BROCCOLI? No way


IF A GIRL ASKED FOR THE SHIRT OFF YOUR BACK, WOULD YOU GIVE IT TO HER? Well, depends on the situation and if it was a hot GUY it would be totally YES!


DREAM JOB? Cruise Director of Ship where I have full control of all the happenings on board!


HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE? The is for sure a YES! I am in love with my husband right now. Love is a wonderful thing. Do I sound like a Micheal Bolton song?


WHAT IS ON YOUR WALLS IN YOUR ROOMS? Renoir Picture, my painting of ladies on the beach from high school, and our Wedding Pics


IS YOUR GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL? Half Full with Wine-Half Empty with Milk


ARE YOU A RIGHTY OR A LEFTY? Lefty-this has caused some problems in my life


DO YOU TYPE WITH YOUR FINGERS ON THE RIGHT KEYS? Of Course-I have classically trained at the keyboard!


IF YOU COULD BE ONE GARDENING TOOL, WHAT WOULD IT BE? A Hoe


WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST CAR? 1982 Ford EXP-yes that was the Escort's Mama

WHAT'S YOUR DREAM CAR? Chrysler 300


XTRA!
AGE:28
TIMES MOVED: 9


FAVORITE YEARS: 1987, 1993, 1995, 1999, 2004


FAVORITE VIDEO GAMES: Pac Man


TV SHOWS I LIKED: Everybody Loves Raymond, Family Ties, American Dreams

SOUNDTRACK CURRENTLY TO MY LIFE: My Sharona by The Knack

Boomerang Kids Refill the Nest

By Michelle Singletary
Sunday, May 15, 2005

When I asked parents whether their adult children, particularly college graduates, should be allowed to move back home, the responses generally fell into two camps.
In one were those parents who vehemently believe their job is done after 18 years of home training and another four or five years of supporting their children through college. Once these young adults have degrees, it's time to kick them to the curb, they argue.
"I believe it is appalling that so many young people consider it their right to move home after an expensive education meant to secure their futures as wage-earning adults," one reader wrote. "I would think graduates would think past their home base to the freedom and personal pride in having achieved the goal they worked so hard to obtain. Perhaps some of the degrees earned are no more than a piece of paper to nowhere."
Here's what Kaye Gibbs, a single mother from Pennsylvania, said: "Parents are not cushions or havens from life. In other words, take care of business. No one, especially your parents, owes you a free ride."
By taking care of business, all the parents in this camp believed that young adults, especially college graduates, needed to figure out how to finance their own life.
"This trend of continuing to depend on someone else for their own welfare is disturbing and, I believe, harmful to the children's, and indeed America's, future," wrote C.H. "Bud" James of Vidor, Tex. "Most of the cases I have seen are simply that they have it good at someone else's expense, and they are too lazy to take responsibility for their own lives. And the sheer gall of a college graduate to come home is unbelievable. What about the parent's right to an easier life? These young people, college grads or not, need to get off their duffs."
In the second camp were parents who see the family home the way a baseball player sees the dugout. It's where their children can come when they strike out at life's fast financial pitches.
"In my 26-year-old daughter's case, she has never left," wrote Mary Ann Lakeman of Buffalo. "Dreams die hard. This generation has had to face that fact much quicker than mine did. Today, education is very expensive and good-paying jobs are few and far between. Their dream job may have been outsourced to China or India and what is left is what they may have to settle for. It's a sad state of affairs for today's youth."
We know that the top reason people go back home is for economic relief. But is that so bad?
Susan Knapp of Quartz Hill, Calif., thinks so. She wrote: "People do not grow and develop into productive adults when they live at home with their parents. Living in a one-room flat and riding the bus to work does wonders for motivation and determination."
I don't think that's an absolute truth.
You know your child. You know if you've got a trifling young adult whose return home is just another bad decision in a long history of bad decisions. You know that what he really wants is his mama's house to be his hotel.
If that is the case, don't let him check in. Put the "no vacancy" sign up. Play tough so he, or she, can learn to be independent and self-sufficient. To do otherwise is to allow an able-bodied adult to be infantile.
On the other hand, if your child has done the best he or she can and falls financially, why not reach down and give a hand up?
And when I say help, I don't mean baby that adult. You are not helping if you allow a grown person to sponge off you. You are not helping if you rob your retirement savings to bail your child out of credit card debt. In England, they call such adults "kippers," which stands for Kids in Parents' Pockets Eroding Retirement Savings.
I like what one reader finally concluded about her sister's return to their parents' home.
"Until two years ago, I used to really hold rancor about the fact that my baby sister sponged off my parents at home," wrote Kelly George of South Riding, Va. "I used to gripe about her not being an adult and living on her own. And then I realized how much my parents need her. Sometimes living at home shouldn't carry the black spot it does."
George said her sister boomeranged back home after two years of working and not making much money. By moving home the sister was able to switch careers and attend a culinary school without incurring debt. Now she's running a small catering business out of the parents' home.
"What do I care if she's not on a fast track?" George said. "Sometimes, with the right situations, living at home isn't considered failure, but noble and loving."

Friday, June 03, 2005

The faith of the Framers-Did the Founding Fathers see the U.S. as a Christian nation?

The role of religion is a major flashpoint in the ongoing culture wars. Did the Founding Fathers see the U.S. as a Christian nation?
6/3/2005

How religious were the Founders?
Most of them were men of sincere Protestant conviction. Their individual piety and practices, however, varied widely. George Washington, for example, was an Episcopalian who attended services regularly. But he didn’t take communion or kneel when he prayed. Thomas Jefferson, while considering himself a Christian, disagreed with much of the Bible and rejected the divinity of Jesus. So he created his own version of the New Testament, cutting out all references to miracles—even Jesus’ resurrection. Although Benjamin Franklin supported the Presbyterian church all his life, he rarely went to services because he found them dull.

Did they think God had blessed America?
Indeed they did. Their writings are filled with the fervent belief that the Colonies’ very existence proved that a divine will was at work. As early as 1765, John Adams wrote that he considered America to be “the opening of a grand scene and design in Providence for the illumination of the ignorant and the emancipation of the slavish part of mankind all over the earth.” Nearly 50 years later, in 1813, he wrote that the “general principles on which the Fathers achieved independence were…the general principles of Christianity.” However, when Adams and his compatriots spoke of Christianity, it wasn’t quite the kind practiced by evangelicals today.

So what was it?
The faith that many of the Founders embraced was deism. Less a religion than a way of perceiving divinity in the world, deism is rooted in the 17th- and 18th-century scientific and philosophical revolutions of the Enlightenment. For deists, God is not a father figure who dwells in heaven and performs miracles. Rather, he is an undefined and unknowable “prime mover” who reveals himself in immutable laws that can rationally explain both cosmic and human affairs. Everything from the physical forces that govern the universe to the essential freedom of man, deists believe, are outward signs of God’s presence among us. In keeping with their deist beliefs, the Founders often refrained from calling the source of their inspiration “God.” He—or, rather, it—was “Divine Providence” and “The Universal Sovereign,” among other euphemisms.

But did the Founders oppose religion?
Quite the contrary. They considered it essential to the health of the republic. Religion, they felt, endowed people with such values as self-reliance, sacrifice, and compassion that were necessary for good citizenship. It also counteracted the destructive tendencies of democracy and capitalism alike. “Of all the dispositions and habits which lead to political prosperity,” said George Washington in his farewell address in 1796, “religion and morality are indispensable supports.” James Madison felt similarly. “Before any man can be considered a member of Civil Society,” he wrote, “he must be considered as a subject of the Governour of the Universe.” Still, the Founders declined to give religion the official endorsement of their new government.

What were they afraid of?
The same intolerance and bigotry that drove many of the original settlers to the New World. The monarchs of the Old World, they knew, had often invoked God as an excuse to make war. Not only had Europe’s kings and princes waged the Crusades in the name of Christianity, they had fought bloody battles of succession and conquest among themselves, with Protestants and Catholics slaughtering one another for political power. “I almost shudder at the thought of alluding to the most fatal example of the abuses of grief which the history of mankind has preserved—the Cross,” wrote John Adams. “Consider what calamities that engine of grief has produced!” When the Founders gathered to write the Constitution in 1787, they were determined to set a different course, so as not to repeat the mistakes of history.

How did they achieve this?
By largely excluding God and religion from our national blueprint. The only reference to religion in the original Constitution is in Article VI, Section 3: “No religious Test shall ever be required as a Qualification to any Office or public Trust under the United States.” When it came time to add the Bill of Rights, the Framers felt that a firmer statement was needed. As their model, they took Virginia’s Statute for Religious Freedom. Written by Thomas Jefferson, and passed by the Virginia Legislature in 1786, it declared that “all men shall be free to profess, and by argument to maintain, their opinion in matters of religion.” For the Constitution, James Madison expanded this into, “The civil rights of none shall be abridged on account of religious belief or worship, nor shall any national religion be established, nor shall the full and equal rights of conscience be in any manner, or any pretense, infringed.” With some trimming, Madison’s resolution became part of the First Amendment we know today.

What was the result?
For all practical purposes, it put the U.S. on the road to secularism. The earliest official expression of this sentiment probably came on June 7, 1797, when the Senate ratified the Treaty of Tripoli, which made peace with the Barbary pirates of North Africa. In declaring that we had no quarrel with the faith of any “Mehomitan” (Muslim) nation, the treaty—ratified unanimously—stipulated that “the government of the United States is not in any sense founded on the Christian religion.” Evangelicals of the time were outraged, but the nation’s course was set. In 1802, President Thomas Jefferson gave the secularists a phrase they would repeat in every subsequent argument on the topic. Baptist ministers from Connecticut had written him, complaining of persecution by the state’s Congregationalist establishment, and seeking his views on religion and the Constitution. “Religion is a matter which lies solely between man and his God,” Jefferson assured them, declaring that the First Amendment had “erected a wall of separation between Church and State.”

A call for prayer
The first weeks of the Constitutional Convention of 1787 were so fraught with difficulty that Benjamin Franklin, perhaps the least religious delegate, proposed that “henceforth prayers imploring the assistance of Heaven, and its blessings on our deliberations, be held in this Assembly every morning before we proceed to business.” He even requested that a clergyman be appointed to officiate. But Alexander Hamilton and several other delegates feared that the resolution, by being introduced at this late date, might lead the public to think that the convention was getting desperate. In any event, Hugh Williamson of North Carolina pointed out, no funds were available to pay for a chaplain. Franklin’s resolution promptly died. He later noted, “The convention, except for three or four persons, thought prayers unnecessary.”